When Christians confess their sin, they are not “informing” God of their sin, but “agreeing” with God regarding what he says about the severity of their sin.
Has God always saved people the same way? Why does it seem that so few were saved in Israel in the Old Testament?
“Do not make yourselves unclean by any of these things, for by all these the nations I am driving out before you have become unclean, and the land became unclean, so that I punished its iniquity, and the land vomited out its inhabitants.” Leviticus 18:24-25 ESV
Even the most sanctified among us, have a perverse standard for justice when compared with the holiness of God.
If you can’t affirm this biblical principle as true, you are outside of Christian Orthodoxy!
There is no love apart from truth. So stop being ambiguous about the truth in order to appear more loving.